How To Flirt When Text Messaging and Texting
submitted: Sep 16th 2008 |
by: TylerTray
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There's not much of a difference between flirting through text messaging and flirting in real life... except for flirting in text messaging is a lot easier.
Women
Most people will say that women have it easy when it comes to texting. That's because men do the approaching... and women probably send 100 times more text messages than men which makes women better at communicating.
On the other hand, when it comes to sending flirty text messages, women seem to mess up on the same subject time and time again. It mainly has to do with sending boring one-liners that have no real pull to respond back. I am sure a lot of men have run into this problem before - you will send her a message such as, "Hey whats up?" "How did that biking trip go for you?" and then she will send something like "It was good." Now, if the woman is trying to move on and not get involved with this guy, then she's doing awesome. But if she's interested in the guy, she is ruining her chances with each boring text message response. She's as if putting up a sign stating, "if you want to have fun move on to some other girl. I AM BORING." A good response has a little attractive chase or at least has some line to respond back to. For instance, a woman could write back, "ya I loved it, but I am not used to wearing those biker short... they are so tight on me." With a message like this, the guy will be day-dreaming about you, become more attracted to you and is an idiot not to respond back. But most importantly, it has a flirty tone to it.
Men
First, let's get on the same page. Men and women are different when it comes to interacting with each other. Us men get the numbers and then we almost always take the role of initiating the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, I have come to realize that most men have no clue about how to text women.
Here's what I mean. A man will almost always go into default mode when they get a text message from an attractive woman. What happens is they end up sending normal day-to-day messages like they are writing to a friend. For example, "messages like, how was your day?" "I am at school, and I wish it was over" or "What are you doing?" will burn away any of the attraction that was created. It's boring and it has no feeling to it and ultimately it destroys a lot of the success you can have with women.
If you were to take anything from this article, it's this: send messages that create a feeling. Let's take those last messages above and make them more emotionally charged, "hey you, I got something to show you, are you free?" "hey, I am in class right now, but this teacher totally reminds of you except she has a cuter hair cut :)" the results you get from messages like this are worth more than you can imagine.
It's because now she is feeling something, she is starting to think about you and basically wants more of it. It is the cycle of attraction and it must be there to have any kind of success with the women you desire.
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