How To Talk Dirty To Your Partner In A Relationship
submitted: Oct 31st 2008 |
by: DuncanRoberts
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If you can put society's somewhat blinkered and reactive view aside for just one minute, just ignore it, then you might realize that using dirty talk inside a relationship between two consenting and involved people can actually do a lot to deepen the bond.
For those relationships where the sparkle has dimmed or the fizzle has burnt out, learning how to talk dirty to your partner can move you back into the unexpected, adding a slight zing to a relationship that might be in need of a change of scenery, the experience of something new.
The first step though is to decide exactly how you should approach talking dirty to your partner. Get it right and you can sit there with a satisfied buzz. Get it wrong though and you could be sitting there trying to make your partner understand what you were doing and where that all just came from.
So step 1 - decide just how dirty or raunchy your partner is likely to go and stay just under that fine line.
Because if you suddenly hit a church going, flower pressing loved one with a string of comments that would make a Playgirl blush - you could very well find yourself sitting in a dark room trying to explain yourself to them and their mother!
Assuming you've been with your partner for a while, you should have a good idea of what they find enjoyable and what they'd respond to. It doesn't have to be and shouldn't be overly sexy or blatant - a hint of an idea is more intoxicating than a fully laid out diagram. Tease them mentally.
Work out something where you know they'll feel safe, warm and intrigued and build their interest and desire slowly.
As you talk, move in towards them, allowing them to feel the heat from your body, the smell of your perfume and the warmth of your breath as you almost whisper to them provocatively.
As you talk, carefully watch their reactions. If they relax and sink into what you are saying, then you have the level of erotic v comfort just right. If they tense and try to flee or just lie stiffly and have a nervous look on their face, you have either pitched into talking dirty too strong or you haven't reassured your partner with the right amount of closeness and intimacy needed for introing something this radical and new into your daily life!
Get them in the mood, use the charm that they fell in love with in the first place to good effect and have them desperate to hold you again.
So - what are you waiting for?
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