Natural and Lasting Attraction- The Key to Healthy Relationships
submitted: Jun 6th 2008 |
by: SarahLove
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Have you ever been dating a man for a while and things are going GREAT - then suddenly they take a turn for the worse and you end up losing him even though you tried your hardest to keep him? This happens to MANY women - and the strange things is - when a man starts withdrawing, we all react the same way using one of (or several) behaviors I have figured out.
Trying to be his friend is one way that women try to compensate for their man withdrawing from them. We try to be fun and caring, supportive and fun - thinking that this will show him what a great gal you are.
Or - you could try to start dating other men, or telling people you are doing that in order to make him jealous. Of course, that jealousy will make him realize how much he loves you.
You may pretend you don't want a serious relationship either, that casual is fine, pretending it does not hurt when he doesn't call or when he goes out with the guys without you. You still have sex though, hoping to keep him coming back for more.
You might guilt-trip him, give him an ultimatum, or tell him he is childish and not a real man, hoping that he will stay in the relationship in order to fix himself, and will, naturally, grow to love you and thank you.
Or of course, there is always trying to do everything for him that he could need done. You might baby him, do his laundry - be as thoughtful as possible in order to, again, show him how much he would be missing.
But guess what? These things do NOT work with men! We all DO them, but they don't work. It makes sense to us, as women, that logically, they would work. But the fact is, inside the mind of a man - they only drive him away.
So what the heck WILL work? The thing is - there IS NO INSTANT FIX. There are no magic words to say to him that will make him, stay. There is no formula, no incantation, etc. What you need to do is to START doing what it is that makes a man FEEL ATTRACTED and MORE INTERESTED in you.
In order to keep your relationship healthy, active and interested, you need to develop an understanding of what creates natural and lasting attraction. A barrier that women face, though, to understanding this is their own personal mindset.
But if you can learn to understand how your mindset affects how you interpret and respond to a man...you will soon get the kind of awareness that will help you interpret on an individual basis what will work for your situation and what will not.
If you can create a natural and lasting attraction for you and your man, your relationship will blossom into a beautiful, healthy relationship that other women envy. So do yourself and your partner a favor and learn what creates natural and lasting attraction now.
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