Six Break Up Warning Signs
submitted: Aug 29th 2008 |
by: MarcSandford
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Before a storm hits, disaster strikes, or something that's just plain bad happens, there will always be signs of warning. It's very common to hear people say: "why didn't we listen to the warning signs". This is true of storms, political events, bridge collapses, and of couples breaking up.
A word of warning. If you're a paranoid person, forget that you ever saw this article. Note that the points made here address changes in your partners behavior that weren't there in the past. Likewise, the more signs that apply to your relationship the more likely a breakup is about to happen.
1.) Any changes recently in her affection for you? Does she avert her head when you want to kiss? This kind of change is a very serious sign that your relationship is in trouble.
Maybe she's still kissing you but the emotion is flat. Boredom is not the point being made, but rather, a dislike of expressing affection with you.
2.) Have you been bumped down to the very end of her priority list? This means that anyone or anything in her life gets her attention first before you. For example, she can never find room in her calendar to squeeze you in.
Avoidance behavior is often encountered in the everyday usage of phones and cell phones. Are you finding there's never an answer when you call or her phone is always set to voice mail? Are you generally seeing less of her because she's made herself scarce?
3.) Are you finding that your very existence displeases her? Have her standards become impossible and she's always criticizing you about something? This means that she's building up a case to leave you and give you the blame for the breakup because you're not good enough.
4.) Does your girlfriend come across as distracted, distant, somewhere else? Perhaps she's apathetic and doesn't add much if at all to the conversation. This remote behavior is very common but when considered in addition to other signs of a breakup, it has significance.
5.) Is your partner starting to become unusually secretive? Not saying where she's going or quickly ending phone calls when you go into the same room? This sort of behavior is odd and you've got to ask yourself why?
6.) Has she begun to talk to you in a very contemptuous way? This is true evidence that her perception of you has undergone a major shift. It's important that you repair this problem soon or risk a break up in the near future.
Again, you must exercise some caution here. Use these tips if you already have a bad feeling about where your relationship is going. People have their quirks of behavior. Keep in mind that we're talking about a behavior change that isn't normal for her.
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