What The Pickup Artist on VH1 Wont Tell You About Fashion 1
submitted: Oct 1st 2008 |
by: VinDiCarlo
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I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.
Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me - not for my benefit...
... but so that she doesn't feel embarrassed when we go out in public together!
If I were the one to pick my clothes, I'd rather pick the sweats and t-shirt, coupled with my old worn sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is silly.
I can definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion design and style. When you look at a really well dressed woman, her outfit is like a work of art, and I dig that.
But when a guy is "too stylish" I kinda lose respect for him.
Don't misinterpret me, a man should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality, well-fitting clothes are a basic of being a masculine.
But some guys take this so much.
The case is, the obsession with "peacocking" in the pickup Community for the past several years.
It makes me cringe when I hear this term.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
If you're not familiar with "peacocking," let me explain.
A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based "game," relying heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
I never saw the value of any of this, and have always gone in the opposite direction.
The main reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.
On top of that, the FIRST FOCUS of all that strategy and game-playing was to eventually get approval from women, while making them feel insecure so they'd think you were cooler than them.
Think of this bullshit layers in the approach to dating. Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) seek approval (as if women has an authority on what makes man a man)
b) hide the fact that you're seeking approval
c) play games that will make women feel insecure so that they will try to seek your approval
YUCK
To dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would "notice" you and want to talk to you is a kind of "peacock,". And "peacock" is one of the main techniques in approaching women.
Now there's nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a necklace that has some personal meaning.
But don't do it to make women like you.
I'm pretty sure a lot of men has seen this approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this hare-brained "technique."
I've personally encountered students of other pickup schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected...they looked RETARDED.
So I want to set the record straight when it comes to fashion and meeting women.
There are only few things that you need to focus when it comes to your appearance.
After knowing this stuff, you should put it out of your mind and TAKE ACTION before women can notice you.
Before I go on, I have to reveal a secret.
(Continued in Part 2)
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