Where to Find Love.
submitted: Nov 6th 2008 |
by: LouiseServage
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How many people go through life feeling that they are lonely or unloved. Even married people go through stages where they feel that they are in this sort of relationship, some have never been in a long term relationship. These people try to tell you that they are happy being alone, but you get to a point in your life where you want someone to share your life with.
I have know people who hop in and out of relationships saying that it wasn't what they were looking for. Only realizing late in life that what they were looking for was unrealistic, they were looking for the type of relationship that you see in the movies or on TV. They come to realize too late in life that there was one person who they thought wasn't right for them, who with hindsight was exactly what they were looking for.
Some people may think of these girls as prostitutes, I don't, I think of them as girls who are surviving and helping their families survive. What is the difference between picking a girl up in a bar in Sydney or New York, buying them a few drinks, dinner or even jewelery, then taking them home to your place for a night of frivolity and paying a girl whose company you enjoy a few dollars for their company for the night or longer.
I have known quite a few men who have walked into a bar in Manila bought one of the bar girls a drink, paid their bar fine and took them back to the hotel for the night and ended up marrying the girl. Of course it wasn't love at first sight, it was a business deal. Money for sex. But the girl gave the man what he wanted and he gave the girl what she wanted.
They enjoyed each others company, and it's not hard for a man to fall in love with a woman who will help you fulfill your every fantasy. He gave her and her family the security that they never had. She migrated back to his home country and made a home for him like no other he had ever had.
He finally realized that it wasn't the women who were the problem, it was him. He was too demanding, he finally settled down and has been with the same girl for 3yrs now, once again she looks a lot like his first wife, but he will never get her back, so he is prepared to settle for second or third best. At least he has settled, and he is now saying that he is in love.
Love is something that comes from within, you have to give it before you get it. Many times I have heard of people go out and looking for the love that they feel is missing from their lives; they never find it. Sometimes you have to stop looking for love and get on with your life, if you are an open and accepting person the love with find you, you don't have to go out looking for it.
How many people do you know who have left someone because they thought that they weren't in love, or because they thought that it wasn't the relationship that they were looking for only to realize when it was too late that the one they left was the one for them. You don't always know what you have got until it is gone.
These girls in the main are or can be very nice girls, but they are looking for a way out of poverty. They will do and say anything to marry someone who will take them out of Asia. Sure they will look after you, as long as you are good to them, and you can come to love each other. But they don't say "love you short time" for nothing, they will love you as long as you are there or as long as your money lasts.
About the Author
Author Louise Servage works for Find Love a business that is absolutely dedicated to help people who want love and want the ins and outs of the match making scene.
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