Why It's Important To Understand Guys
submitted: Jun 30th 2009 |
by: AlanBentley
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In the world of romance, women face a major challenge due to their inability to really understand guys. Two good friends could spend a lot of time trying to work out why men do the strange things that they do, how they act or think, or basically trying to understand their respective love interests.
It's important to understand that a woman and a man are separate creatures! Their thought processes are fundamentally different. You need to try and comprehend these differences in order to cultivate the best relationships with somebody of the opposite sex. Understand guys and life will be a lot easier!
Men tend not to be dreamers and live more in the present tense. They often adopt the no-nonsense approach to things and see issues as being either black or white. When you are trying to understand guys, you must give them clear directions and not try to be too subtle.
As a man is looking for an endorsement of his own personal attractiveness, he will often look for a woman with confidence. He sees a confident woman in a positive light. In addition to displaying confidence, you must also understand that you are attractive to the guy. Don't worry about the way you look as he will not be so picky about such small things.
You will really understand guys if you realize that they want to be a man of the world. Don't worry if you see them exchanging looks or flirting mildly with other women across the room. Just comes to terms with this as it does not mean he is not interested in you.
Never set out to try and change your man -- this is one of the most difficult challenges you could take on. As men are very set in their ways and often traditional, they will not like it if you try to pressurize them to change. If he does try and change because of your pressure, you should be careful because in the long term he might come to resent you for it. Learn a lot about how to understand guys by accepting their lack of flexibility.
Don't be surprised that your man will want to maintain his normal routine and expect you to go along with this. You need to understand guys are not necessarily ready to devote all their time and resources to a love interest. Their "night out with the boys" is a tradition that they will not easily give up and you must make room for it.
One of the main things that a man is looking for in a relationship with a woman is support. He will undoubtedly classify himself as the leader, or the breadwinner, and is looking for moral and psychological support from you. You won't really understand guys until you realize that he is looking for this fundamental contribution from his partner.
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