Woman Today And Her Mr. Right
submitted: Aug 9th 2008 |
by: PamBaldwin
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Todayas woman has greatly increased her expectations for potential mates. She is independent, and is finding greater opportunity in the work place and in her personal life. She sizes up partners with never before seen speed, assessing a manas strengths and weaknesses without delay.
She has accomplished everything she set out to do thus far, finished college, got a great job. She is happy, but decides it is time to consider a more serious relationship than she experienced while in school. She will not treat her opportunities in love any more lightly than she has her professional opportunities, she will make a conscious deliberate decision.
What would such a woman be looking for in a man? That would ultimately depend on the womanas values, her personality and more than likely her past experiences with relationships, including not only romantic ones but those with her family. She may be looking for a man who is comparable to her. A man who has worked as diligently as she in choosing his career and lifestyle. She may be looking for someone who follows the same standards as she experienced with her own mother and father. That which is familiar and she finds comfortable. Or she may be looking for someone who is her opposite, one who challenges her into seeing new and exciting ways to look at the world around her.
Weighing all these options, she will have choices as varied as there are personality types. If she finds a man that compliments her own outlook, he will be just as hard-working and dedicated as she is; someone who has attained his personal goals through perseverance. She will be attracted to confident man with a strong sense of self and direction.
If she is pursuing a relationship similar to the one her parents had will look for comparable personality traits. Maybe her home had parents who were completely devoted to one another, who took loyalty and faithfulness to one another very seriously. Or perhaps her parentsa relationship was one of separate lives shared only at dinner time in story yet somehow coming together quite comfortably. There is also the unfortunate possibility that her home was one of loneliness, where her parents had little affection or devotion toward one another. She could still potentially be comfortable living in a similar home. She would desire a man with an inability to share who will never get emotionally closer than sharing the house with her.
A woman looking for new thrills and excitement will desire someone capable of stimulating her thoughts and actions. A woman like this might like a man that is eccentric, jumps from project to project, and who creates a little mystery as to who he truly is; a man like that would be very creative, someone who throws caution to the wind.
We may never know what a woman truly wants, because she may not sincerely have placed in mind a specific character. Women are as different as men. She can be interested in someone who comprises all of these qualities. A man who is hard working, with a diligent attitude but also exhibits tendencies to stray from the norm and is adventurous.
Last of all we must acknowledge that women are searching for what they find most attractive; men that interest them intellectually as well as physically. Women can be enigmatic and often defy any attempt to categorize them. But, by accepting their mystery you will be closer to knowing what they really want.
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