The Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend Right in Front of Your Nose
submitted: Jul 30th 2008 |
by: AliciaAdams
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Did you ever discover something that you wish you hadn't? This is the same reason many women know in their hearts they've been cheated on, but remain in denial. They've seen the signs of cheating boyfriend but refuse to truly notice them.
In this world of uncertainty and the recent precipitous dive in "family values", a cheater can find refuge in the anonymity of numbers. Shocking numbers!
Fifty percent does seem high, and when I saw it I had the same reaction you're probably having right nowdisbelief. I then went on to research that there are only a small minority of people who actually do something about it.
Okay, you're doing research on this topic so you're already ahead of the game. This means you are among the small group of women who have the courage and dignity to do something about your situation. You've seen the signs of a cheating boyfriend and you decided to do something about it. This means that you are willing to take action and initiative, the power to take your life into your own hands and be happy for once.
As humans, many times we have the evidence right in front of us but we refuse to see it. Eventually, we let things go so long that it becomes part of normal life, a miserable one.
This is one of those moments in your life where you have to decide to take action or sit on the sidelines. As humans our fear kicks in when we are faced with the choice to find out information that we know we don't want to know. It's like being called into the bosses office and you don't know why. That fear comes over you and then you find out...hey, this isn't so bad.
PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER! This is your life. You make the calls (At least you probably used to). Take control of your life again, pull your confidence together and begin living again.
- Rolling in at 6:00 am is more than a long days work. It's a long night of thinking how he is going to explain to you where he's been all this time.
- Your once raging sex life has all but completely disappeared.
- History has a habit of repeating itself. Check your boyfriends relationship history. Look for both consistencies and inconsistencies. And if he does have a historydon't count on him changing, Trust me.
- Is eye contact becoming a scarcity? The guilt can play tricks on a guys mind, enough so where he acts over confident, but yet can't seem to look you in the eye.
- You have short brown hair, but you keep finding long blond hair on your boyfriends shirt, car, pantsetc.
- Check the records. The proof is in the paper. Look for receipts that don't make sense. Is he buying lip gloss at the convenience store but he doesn't even wear chapstick. Think about it. Enough said.
- Do you find him using the computer more often than before? Does he have a sudden interest in MySpace, but yet won't let you see his profile or his page. Does he smile a lot when on the computer then switch pages suddenly when you walk in the room?
- Ah yes, The ever so popular cell phone! Any new trends in his usage or lack thereof? How about texting, or vibrating ringer. How about not answering calls? Out of all the signs of a cheating boyfriend, this is one of the easiest to pick up on and get proof of infidelity.
- Do you find inconsistency in his stories and his friend's stories. Men aren't the best at communicating to begin with, try getting them to tell the same lie in perfect unison
- Does your back hurt from carrying all the weight in your relationship. Chances are he's giving you a hint, a very direct hint. Most men do this because their cheating on you and want you to break up with them.
Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can't deny anything, once you have solid proof!
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