The Ten-Second Kiss
submitted: Oct 2nd 2008 |
by: CalvinSorren
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When a couple stands at the altar and vows to love each other, "Till death do us part," they assume they will be intimately connected forever. The kiss at the end of the ceremony symbolizes that connection. It is the most intimate connection possible between two people, even more intimate than sexual intercourse. A prostitute will tell you that they can have sex with her customers, but cannot kiss them.
A kiss can reveal the core of a couple's relationship. Many couples do not notice that their relationship has fizzled from passionate lovers to friends. They suddenly realize that over time it has gone from lovers to roommates. Read on to see how to turn that friend back in to a lover.
A peck on the cheek says "I love you," but a 10 second kiss says "I am in love with you." Most women say they have felt lonely or empty minutes after their husband comes home. If you feel the same way, here is a proven method to eradicate this problem.
The quickest and most dramatic results have been from the assignment of the 10 second kiss. If you give this kiss in the morning, it will set the tone for the entire day, and in the evening, it will set the tone for the rest of the night. This type of kiss is passionate and makes you both feel connected. Try this tonight: take your husband or wife and give them a 10 second kiss. They might respond "What's gotten into you?" just say to them, "From now on we are not going to be roommates anymore. We are going back to being lovers!"
Then tell your mate that you would like to try an experiment. For the next week every time you haven't seen each other for an extended period of time (usually the work day), you are to give each other a ten-second kiss. Tell him it doesn't matter how awful his or your day has been. You are to greet each other with a ten-second kiss. You can bring out a stopwatch or use the microwave timer to get him accustomed to the length of this kiss. Have some fun with this.
You probably think 10 seconds is not long, but it is! Most married couples greet each other with speaking, such as "Hi, I'm home" or "Anyone here?" The isolated feeling are there because there is no physical response. Isolated feeling will be replaced with closeness and warm feelings when you start relating to each other in this way. Once you have connected with the kiss, you can continue with your normal tasks, such as dinner, kids, etc... You will feel connected to each other now.
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