Cheating Signs 101
submitted: Feb 7th 2010 |
by: BlakeRuiz
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Cheating is what I'd like to call the almighty sin of a relationship. It occurs in a lot of relationships and it can go several ways from there. It is either forgiven, or it is the cause to pull the plug. Unfortunately this happens to the best of us. Something overcomes you and you end up making a bad choice. Whether you were drunk, sober, angry, depressed, whatever the case might have been, it was still the choice YOU made.
Well enough about that. Let me ask you this; are you suspecting that your partner is cheating on you? Looking how to catch a cheating spouse? Need the signs of cheating? What would you do? Do you go and start yelling at them? Begin to accuse them of something they really didn't do? NO. My answer is that if you really aren't sure you need to talk to them and tell them the reasons you feel that way. Now you must be thinking, "well how do I know they're telling the truth?" "What are the signs of cheating?"
It's easy for some people to lie and keep up the deception for a long time. Couples break up after finding out their partner was cheating on them for months or even years. You need to analyze their behavior if you're becoming suspicious. Don't go and ask one of their friends. If they go out for late nights and never really say what they were going to do, coming back home what "that" smell. I think you understand exactly what I mean by "that" smell. Always going out far away from where you guys live. They might do this because they don't want to see anyone they know, anyone you might know, and most importantly, YOU.
When you talk to your partner think about how they respond to you. What words and phrases they use. One of the easiest ways you can tell someone is lying is from the lack of eye contact. If they get nervous, start to studder, and look away from you a lot. These could be bad signs. I'm not saying all of these behaviors automatically make them a cheater but it's something you should consider. If your really becoming suspicious you could always look at their cell phone.
Some cheaters aren't very smart and won't delete naughty text messages, phone call logs or even voice mails. Do what you feel is necessary to find out the truth because the bottom line is that no one deserves to be cheated on. You owe it to yourself. Are you in a situation like this?
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